One of his favourite experiences is when a stranger asked him to pretend to be her husband and choose men for her to have sex with in the club, but only if he checked their penis size first. Having entered the mainstream in the last decade, with companies such as Torture Garden and Killing Kittens bringing adult parties into the fore, these events allow people to test their sexual boundaries and expand their horizons in a safe, consensual space.
The aforementioned Killing Kittens , for instance, which was founded by Emma Sayle in , hosts premium events for couples straight or bisexual female pairs and single women, as well as women-only events, including one that is taking place in London this month.
In recent years, the company has added virtual events to its repertoire, held with members from all over the globe including Europe, the US and Australia, which is a great option for newbies.
One night, their friends invite them along to a house party, which actually turns out to be a swingers event in a luxurious mansion. He has had countless threesomes and says communication is the key to avoiding arguments or misunderstandings. Plus I get to show off in front of them. Learning and feeling what others want from you and your partner can be really hot⦠as well as useful and healthy.
While guests are encouraged to get as kinky as they want and can have sex on every available surface, all sexual activities must be consensual. I bring what I like that way too. The logistics are crazy as you need to switch out your condom between each partner. Something that might surprise newbie swingers is that the experience could be completely different to what you imagine in your head, and going solo to an event can be daunting but also exhilarating.
